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Workshop on Handling Rejection and Failure Held for Kids Under ‘Chirag Datta Naik’ Initiative

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Written by Intern Queeny George M.H , Team Allycaral

The Chirag Datta Naik Initiative saw yet another successful workshop on “Handling Rejection and Failure” conducted by Anisha’s Nurture Nest this past Sunday at Samarth Krupa Hall, opposite ESI Hospital, Margao. The session, intended for children aged 7 to 15, was led by Anisha Kapdi and marks the third in this series.

Congress leader Chirag Naik, present at the workshop, applauded the parents who made the effort to bring their children. He said, “There are three types of parents: those who have experienced such things in childhood and now encourage their kids; those who never got the opportunity and want their children to go ahead and do it – I appreciate such parents; and those who had the experience but are unable to bring their kids due to reasons like work, lifestyle, social media, gadgets, etc.” His words underscored the importance of parental involvement in building emotional resilience.

During the workshop, Anisha Kapdi taught key coping skills: accepting rejection, expressing one’s feelings openly, analysing the reasons behind a rejection to improve upon them, and maintaining self‑confidence. She emphasized that rejection is a normal part of life. Parents were encouraged not to treat failures—such as low examination scores—as shameful events. If children feel embarrassed or punished for failure, they may stop seeking support or sharing their struggles.

Anisha also urged parents to normalize their own stories of rejection, helping children feel safe and understood. She cautioned against comparing children with others, highlighting that each child is unique. Instead of pushing them into a rat race, parents should recognize their children’s individual capacities (their potential) and capabilities (their interests and passions). Whether a child is drawn to science, arts, culinary fields, or anything else, supportive recognition matters. Above all, she stressed that children must feel loved so they are always willing to come back to their parents when things go wrong.

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More Than a Thread: The Unbreakable Bond of Brotherhood

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Written by Nikita Volvoikar

As Raksha Bandhan approaches, I find myself wrapped in a wave of emotions — love, nostalgia, gratitude. It’s a festival that always reminds me of the special bond I share with my brothers, especially Nikhil, my elder brother, who has been my first friend, partner in crime, and a constant support system.

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Ours is what you’d call a Tom and Jerry relationship — filled with squabbles and silly fights, yet rooted in a love that never wavers. Despite all the teasing and disagreements, we’ve always stood up for each other when it mattered most.

Growing up, Nikhil and I shared a deep love for dancing. He would take me to the dance floor at weddings, and together we’d dance the night away. Even today, I miss those moments — especially now that he works away from home. He’s also my trusted secret keeper, and we’ve created memories that I will always hold dear.

One of the things I admire most about him is how he expresses his care — not through grand gestures, but through thoughtful little actions. Whenever he calls home, he always checks in on me:
“Where’s baby? Is she home from work? What is she doing?”
 It’s those small things that speak volumes about his love.

Mom once told me that Nikhil used to pray for a sister before I was born — and when I arrived, he was overjoyed. That thought alone fills my heart with warmth. Over the years, our relationship has grown from sibling rivalry to a beautiful friendship built on trust, loyalty, and deep affection.

But Nikhil isn’t the only brother I’m blessed with. I’ve had many brothers — by blood and by bond — who’ve played important roles in my life.

There’s Rahul, with whom I have cherished summer vacation memories. We would spend hours playing and just enjoying the innocence of childhood.
Johnathan — my modern-day partner in crime — our plans are always spontaneous, but somehow, they always work.
Calvin, my little brother, has grown up so fast. Watching him become more independent and confident makes me so proud.
Fabian, Viraj, Rajat, and Vineet — each one has stood by me in different ways, sharing in laughter, festivals, and life’s ups and downs.

From bursting firecrackers during Ganesh Chaturthi to simply being present during key moments, my brothers have always made me feel seen, loved, and protected.

As I look back at these beautiful memories, I realize how truly blessed I am. We’ve had our fights, disagreements, and differences — but what’s endured is our bond, stronger than ever.

So this Raksha Bandhan, I want to say thank you — to Nikhil and all my brothers — for being there, for loving me unconditionally, and for making my life brighter in ways you may never even realize. Happy Raksha Bandhan to all the wonderful brothers and sisters out there. May your bonds continue to grow stronger, and may all broken ties be healed with love.

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Grandparents’ Love: A Bond Beyond Time

Tanisha Cardozo

Written By Nikita Volvoikar

There are all kinds of relationships we build in life—parents, siblings, friends, co-workers—but some are simply irreplaceable. For me, that was the bond I shared with my grandparents. It’s a relationship I still cherish deeply and one that continues to shape who I am.

Growing up with working parents, my brother and I spent most of our time with our grandparents. And while both of us were loved immensely, I won’t deny that I was definitely a little more pampered. They spoiled me—with love, attention, stories, and life lessons.

My Grandpa – My Secret Keeper and Cheerleader

Grandpa, a proud Goan, loved his traditions. I still smile when I remember our quiet adventures—sneaking snacks, watching him enjoy a tiny glass of Urrak in the backyard cottage, and getting caught by Grandma despite our best efforts. He trusted me with his secrets and gave me his unwavering support, even encouraging me to sing in church. The way he looked at me—with pride and love—was everything.

My Grandma – My Superwoman

Grandma was everything: strong yet soft, firm yet incredibly loving. She helped raise me, braid my hair, teach me how to be a responsible, confident woman, and encouraged my passion for cooking. She fed us with stories, comforted us when we were sick, and made sure we were always cared for. Her love wasn’t loud—but it filled every corner of my childhood.

Their Absence, Their Legacy

Watching them grow old broke my heart, and losing them felt like losing a part of myself. Their absence still leaves a void no one can fill. I miss their hands, their hugs, and their voices. But I believe they are watching over me, just as they always did—with love and prayer.

A Message to You

If your grandparents are still with you, treasure them. Listen to them. Hug them more. Forgive them quickly. Their love is a rare kind—pure, selfless, and eternal. And if they’re no longer here, keep praying for them. Because long before you knew yourself, they were praying for you.

Grandparents are a blessing. Love them while you can. Pray for them always.

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P.T. Usha Announces Engagement of Son Dr. Vignesh Ujjwal to KrishnaTrack Legend Shares Joyous Family Moment

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July 19, 2025 | India: In a delightful and heartfelt announcement, Indian track icon, Olympian, and Member of Parliament in the Rajya Sabha, P.T. Usha, has shared that her beloved son, Dr. Vignesh Ujjwal, is now engaged to Krishna.

A beacon of discipline and excellence on the track, P.T. Usha expressed her joy and blessings for the young couple in a warm statement:
“May God bless them in abundance with happiness and love.”

Known globally as the “Queen of Indian Track and Field,” P.T. Usha has long been a role model to generations of athletes. Now, she celebrates a personal milestone — one filled with love, family, and the promise of a new beginning.

The engagement is being celebrated with joy by friends, well-wishers, and members of the sports fraternity. As a parliamentarian and President of the Indian Olympic Association, Usha continues to inspire, and this moment adds a special chapter to her legacy — not just as an athlete, but as a proud mother.

We extend our warmest wishes to Dr. Vignesh Ujjwal and Krishna as they begin this beautiful journey together.

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Rethinking Valentine’s Day: A Celebration of Love Beyond Romance

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Written by Intern Joysi Yadav, Team Allycaral

As the world gears up to celebrate Valentine’s Day, we can’t help but feel a sense of unease. The pressure to be in a romantic relationship, the overwhelming commercialization of love, and the constant bombardment of sappy advertisements can be overwhelming. But what about those who don’t fit the traditional mold of Valentine’s Day celebrations? What about the singles, the solo travelers, and the self-love advocates?

In this article, we’ll explore the idea of rethinking Valentine’s Day, shifting the focus from romantic love to a more inclusive celebration of love in all its forms.

A Day Like Any Other

For many singles, Valentine’s Day is just another day. They wake up, go about their routine, and try to avoid the constant reminders of love and romance. But what if we told you that you don’t have to feel left out? What if we encouraged you to celebrate your own love story, even if it doesn’t fit the traditional mold?

Redefining Love

Love comes in many forms, and it’s time we start acknowledging that. Whether it’s the love you have for your family, your friends, or yourself, it’s all worthy of celebration. So, this Valentine’s Day, take some time to reflect on the love in your life. Write a gratitude journal, make a handmade gift for a loved one, or simply take a moment to appreciate the beauty of self-love.

A Valentine’s Day Message

To all the singles, solo travelers, and self-love advocates out there, we see you. We hear you. And we want you to know that you are worthy of love and celebration, regardless of your relationship status.

So, this Valentine’s Day, don’t feel pressured to conform to societal norms. Instead, take the time to celebrate your own unique love story. Treat yourself to a solo dinner date, take a relaxing bath, or simply enjoy a quiet night in with a good book.

Remember, love is not just about romantic relationships. It’s about the love you have for yourself, your community, and the world around you. So, let’s rethink Valentine’s Day and make it a celebration of love in all its forms.

Share Your Love Story

We want to hear from you! Share your unique love story with us, whether it’s a romantic relationship, a self-love journey, or a celebration of friendship and community. Use the hashtag #RethinkValentinesDay and let’s start a conversation about what love means to you.

Happy Valentine’s Day, and remember to always celebrate the love that matters most – the love you have for yourself.